i didn't mean that in a derogatory mannner. just an observation. personally i have no problems with gays at all. but most guys who spend their time to look like that are either self centered and/or gay and most likely wouldn't make a good companion anyways.
which brings me to another question: why do chicks dig jerks? i mean, some of the biggest assholes i've known seem to always have chicks flocking all over them. is this some low self esteem issue females have?
i know a guy who talks to his wife like he does to his dogs...tells her to shut the fuck up, yells at her all the time, makes her lift heavy things and then yells at her for not lifting it high enough....and she loves this guy!! go figure.
just when i think i know females....you do something like this. sheesh. maybe that's what you guys really want: to be slapped around a little.

JUST KIDDING!!!!!!!!!!! relax..
i've always treated females with respect, (accept for anne coulter) i was brought up that way. but it seems that women look at that as a sign of weakness or something.